Basically, the spouses switched

Dating widower brother in law

But your loss is still relatively recent, and I can see how a relationship with this woman could help soothe many of the difficult feelings you must be experiencing. Life is very short, and it sounds like you enjoy each other. As with seeing anyone you've known for some time, it is good to take it slow and be very careful so as not to screw up what you had before by dating. She has been an incredible friend this last year and helped me through my grieving process.

But your loss is

He may keep you hidden from them at first, not knowing how they will react to their father with another woman. You are her sister so you would probably feel that way and feel weir because maybe I will too. Maybe she doesn't see him as family cause you guys aren't.

Life is very

Just she may not think of you that way so don't come on too strong. Many have had comfortable, long-term relationships and have gotten secure in their daily existence.

If a woman is there at the right time for a widower, then she is in luck. They might be used to a wife who did all the domestic things for them, such as the laundry, grocery shopping, cooking, or even fixing a running toilet. Then the widow married for a third time, but to someone unrelated.

She must get some answers and then make an intelligent decision to wait or leave. Just let it play out and try to be respectful. If this advice sounds negative, it is only meant to provide women with a jolt of realism, and to provide widowers with an eye-opener. There are so many absolutely wonderful women who are available because of a spouse's earlier death. There's no reason at all why you shouldn't go for this if you both want it.